13 Years together....

DianeWalker
DianeWalker
22 July 2015 @ 09:31:55
Posts: 1
Member Since: 22 July 2015

I was with my ex for 13 years.  We were engaged and planning to marry in 2017.  We had a house together (our second)

Last June he walked out, stopped paying the mortgage and 6 months later got married.

I now find myself in a house I can no longer afford, he has not paid a penny since the day he left.

Each day I still think about him, memories are everywhere.  We were together for so long yet he marries 6 months after leaving?

The pain has been unbearable at times.  I keep asking myself why did he leave? Why did he marry her after 6 months?  Whats so great about her?

We still own the house together, although it is on the market.  I feel lost, abandoned and most of all betrayed that I spent so long with this guy.  I trusted him, I loved him and then he does this?

I have no idea where he lives, he changed his mobile number and contact is only through solicitors.

What makes people do this?  Was I so bad that he now treats me as if I am insignificant?  How do I get through this?

He helped me bring up my daughter from the age of 4, yet he hasn't seen or been in contact with her since.  Is like we never exisited

uniform999
uniform999
22 July 2015 @ 09:31:55
Posts: 1
Member Since: 22 July 2015

I was with my ex for 13 years.  We were engaged and planning to marry in 2017.  We had a house together (our second)

Last June he walked out, stopped paying the mortgage and 6 months later got married.

I now find myself in a house I can no longer afford, he has not paid a penny since the day he left.

Each day I still think about him, memories are everywhere.  We were together for so long yet he marries 6 months after leaving?

The pain has been unbearable at times.  I keep asking myself why did he leave? Why did he marry her after 6 months?  Whats so great about her?

We still own the house together, although it is on the market.  I feel lost, abandoned and most of all betrayed that I spent so long with this guy.  I trusted him, I loved him and then he does this?

I have no idea where he lives, he changed his mobile number and contact is only through solicitors.

What makes people do this?  Was I so bad that he now treats me as if I am insignificant?  How do I get through this?

He helped me bring up my daughter from the age of 4, yet he hasn't seen or been in contact with her since.  Is like we never exisited

uniform999
uniform999
22 July 2015 @ 09:31:55
Posts: 1
Member Since: 22 July 2015

I was with my ex for 13 years.  We were engaged and planning to marry in 2017.  We had a house together (our second)

Last June he walked out, stopped paying the mortgage and 6 months later got married.

I now find myself in a house I can no longer afford, he has not paid a penny since the day he left.

Each day I still think about him, memories are everywhere.  We were together for so long yet he marries 6 months after leaving?

The pain has been unbearable at times.  I keep asking myself why did he leave? Why did he marry her after 6 months?  Whats so great about her?

We still own the house together, although it is on the market.  I feel lost, abandoned and most of all betrayed that I spent so long with this guy.  I trusted him, I loved him and then he does this?

I have no idea where he lives, he changed his mobile number and contact is only through solicitors.

What makes people do this?  Was I so bad that he now treats me as if I am insignificant?  How do I get through this?

He helped me bring up my daughter from the age of 4, yet he hasn't seen or been in contact with her since.  Is like we never exisited

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